Okay, so that’s not the most positive title I could use, but it’s a pretty accurate reflection of how I’m feeling at the moment.
RobotBoy and I had a really rough time last year. I knew things would change quite a bit this year, with his big sister off at college. And I made a genuine effort in planning to choose materials and a schedule that would make things more palatable for him. Two of my primary goals for this year, in fact, are to work on improving our relationship and to re-ignite his enjoyment of learning.
Nonetheless, I worried as we got close to the official start of our year. I absolutely dreaded the idea that we would fall back into the unpleasant patterns from last year.
So far, though, things are going well. We’ve done away with assignment sheets entirely. I have my lesson plans for each week, and on Monday we just sat together and figured out how much of each subject he would do each day. He’s been writing out his own list of goals on his whiteboard each day and gets a big kick out of erasing things as they are finished.
He did leave a little more reading for today than would probably have been ideal, but he’s a terrific reader and enjoys curling up in a nest of blankets and pillows in the living room to read. So, it’s not the worst problem we could have.
The only moments of tension so far came on Tuesday (when I made him erase and re-write some labels on a Latin worksheet to make them neater), Wednesday (when he experienced his first “free” day and got bored until I guided him to a project—Thank goodness for Learning Through History magazine!) and today (when he was doing a quiz in his online math class, asked me for help and then got angry when he didn’t like my answers). Each of them has passed quickly, though, and ended with a spontaneous apology.
The Week in Review
So, for those that may be interested in the nuts and bolts, here’s what he accomplished this week.
Monday: Doing a math lesson, reading four pages of Prentice Hall’s Earth’s Waters, reading two pages of Minimus Secundus, reading the biographical information about Antonio Vivaldi in Themes to Remember and listening to “Spring,” reviewing the information about numbers in The Learnables Spanish: Basic Structures, working on the latest Top Secret Adventures geography kit on Greece, reading from The Ghost in the Tokaido Inn, attending his weekly drum lesson.
Tuesday: Listening to me read aloud from Great Expectations over breakfast, doing a math lesson, reading two-page spread from his Human Body book, doing a Secundus activity sheet, practicing “Spring,” reviewing the “How to do the lessons” information in The Learnables, doing some more work on the Top Secret kit, doing one story from the Child’s History of the World CD ROM, reading more of The Ghost in the Tokaido Inn, attending his piano lesson.
Wednesday: Making a Russian cloak and hat following directions from Learning Through History: Tsarist Russia. We had to go to the fabric store for supplies first, and I let him be in charge of figuring out what he needed and choosing the materials. He had a blast! He watched a couple of kid-friendly science shows we had saved on the DVR, started re-reading the 7th Harry Potter book, then attended his ballet class that evening. Two Wednesdays a month, he will be attending classes at our local science museum. On the alternate Wednesdays, assuming he is caught up with all of his schoolwork, he gets the day off to do projects and read and play and watch reasonably educational TV.
Thursday: Doing a math lesson, reading and translating the two-page picture story from Secundus, practicing “Spring,” reviewing the week’s Spanish assignments, reading a few articles from Learning Through History: Tsarist Russia, doing another Child’s History of the World story, doing one lesson of Word Roots software, reading some more Ghost in the Tokaido Inn, watching a Great Composers DVD about Antonio Vivaldi, attending choir practice.
Friday: Listening to some more Great Expectations over breakfast, doing his math quiz, reading Diane Stanley’s Peter the Great, reading some background information about Kabuki from a book about theatre history, reading some more Ghost in the Tokaido Inn, reading a few more articles from Learning Through History: Tsarist Russia and Learning Through History: The French Revolution, reading two pages from one of his Marine Science books, doing another Secundus activity sheet, reading the story about Vivaldi from Lives of the Musicians, watching an A&E biography of Peter the Great, attending ballet and jazz classes.
You will notice that there’s no grammar or writing in the mix just yet. That’s in part because I made a conscious choice to require less writing this year, since it was the cause of so much of our trouble last year. I consulted with the certified teacher who does our annual evaluations, and she agreed that it won’t do him any harm to back off a bit and let us both catch our breath. He reads constantly and consistently scores extremely well in all language arts testing (except for spelling and punctuation), so I’ve decided to just let him relax a bit this year. Also, I made a last-minute decision to switch from Voyages in English to Galore Park’s English Prep text. The book had to be ordered from England, so we’re still waiting for it to arrive.
I almost succumbed to assigning a written narration on Peter the Great today, since RobotBoy was so excited after reading about him. But I bit my tongue, both because I decided it wouldn’t be fair to toss in an extra assignment this late in the week and because the week has gone so well so far that I don’t want to blow it! The plan is to gradually add back in some more writing as the year progresses.
He seems to be pretty happy with his curriculum and with his schedule so far. He is very much enjoying both The Ghost in the Tokaido Inn and Great Expectations and is getting a big kick out of Themes to Remember. I think the Prentice Hall Science Explorer book is going to be a big hit, too.
So, all in all, a pretty good week! I’m actually starting to feel optimistic about this year.
Here’s hoping that all the other homeschoolers out there are finding their years off to a good start, too.
